The death of a loved one is always a trying time. The Church seeks to help such loved ones to prepare for their journey to the next life. When a loved one begins to be seriously ill, and especially when they near death, please call a priest so he can administer the last rites, and pray with the family.

After a loved one passes away, the Church wishes to continue to support the individual and their family by celebrating the funeral liturgy. While families sometimes consider having a Blessing Services in the funeral home, funeral Masses in church are preferred. If family members feel uncomfortable being in a church, be assured that the priest will help them feel at home and guide them through the liturgy. If burial has to take place before everyone can gather for a funeral, the family can opt to have a "Memorial Mass" at a later date. A memorial Mass is basically a funeral Mass without a body. For Church teaching on cremation, click here.

When planning a Catholic funeral, here are some things to consider:

I. Scripture readings - family members can select an Old Testament Reading, New Testament reading, and Gospel reading. Click the appropriate links for lists of readings you can choose from.

II.Because a funeral Mass takes place in church and is an official public liturgy, only sacred music should be played. There are some traditional funeral hymns that are often used. Click here for a list of acceptable hymns.

III. Midway through a funeral Mass, a few representatives of the family are welcome to bring up the gifts of bread and wine to the priest. It is usually the children or grandchilren.

IV. A couple of our churches have the custom of allowing the family to use the social hall for a luncheon immediately following the funeral. Click here for more information.